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Don't Assume There's Toilet Paper
A Humorous and Insightful Read about Paying Attention, Accepting Responsibility, and Embracing the Unexpected
This cheeky book uses the predicament of being stranded without toilet paper as a metaphor for paying attention and taking responsibility in life. With humor and wit, the author shares stories and wisdom on cultivating mindfulness, overcoming assumptions, and learning to gracefully navigate whatever surprises come your way.
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“Don’t Assume There’s Toilet Paper navigates life’s challenges through relatable tales as author Richard Harmer employs the bathroom stall’s missing essential as a metaphor for the perils of assumptions, guiding readers toward mindfulness, resilience, and the art of intentional living.”
– Vince Poscente
New York Times Bestselling Author and Hall of Fame Speaker
As I turned the pages, I found myself not only learning valuable life lessons, but also laughing out loud at his anecdotes and witty observations. Richard’s ability to infuse humor is a testament to his authenticity and relatability.
This book goes beyond mere words on a page; it’s a guide to unlocking your true potential and embracing a life of freedom and fulfillment. And let me tell you, I will forever remember to check for toilet paper, thanks to Richard’s hilarious reminder!
With two enthusiastic thumbs up, I wholeheartedly recommend “Don’t Assume There’s Toilet Paper” as a must-read. Richard’s journey will inspire you, his humor will uplift you, and his insights will stay with you long after you’ve finished the last page.
– Dr Jefferey Magee
“In a world cluttered with clichés, this book emerges as a beacon of wisdom. Using humor and insight, Harmer transforms an everyday conundrum into a metaphor for life’s assumptions and personal responsibility. This book reminds us to question assumptions, embrace accountability, and thrive amidst life’s surprises. It’s not just a book; it’s a transformative journey to a more mindful and accountable lifestyle.”
-Ryan Leak – Speaker, Author
Summary
This lighthearted book uses humor to impart serious life lessons on paying attention, taking responsibility, and dealing with the unexpected. While the imagery of being stranded without toilet paper elicits laughs, the author skillfully uses this metaphor to share insightful perspectives on mindfulness, assumptions, communication, optimism, problem-solving, and more.
With wit and candor, the book covers topics such as:
– The dangers of unchecked assumptions
– Improving communication skills
– The importance of emotional intelligence and acceptance
– Achieving life balance
– The risks of overconfidence
– Embracing challenges and difficulties
– The art of paying attention
– Taking personal accountability
– Cultivating passion and perseverance
From funny anecdotes to thought-provoking analogies, this entertaining book will resonate with anyone seeking humor, wisdom, and a fresh perspective on life’s unpredictability.
“A satirical approach to valuable lessons for your journey of life. Richard wants you to become aware of yourself within. From a collection of personal stories, the book presents value that we may create when we apply mindfulness concepts and minimize assumptions.” – Gregg Meyer, President Evolve Mortgage Services
Making Assumptions: How Unchecked Assumptions Can Lead to Disaster
– You’ll read about common cognitive biases and how they distort thinking
– Discover strategies to challenge assumptions and avoid blind spots
– Understand the risks of entitlement, overconfidence, and complacency
– Develop mindfulness practices to increase self-awareness
– Gain insights into crisis management and effective decision-making
We Have a Crisis in Communication
– Explore how technology has impacted authentic communication
– Learn ways to improve listening, empathy, and emotional intelligence
– Discuss the importance of humility and vulnerability in connections
– Understand the difference between motion and meaningful action
– Discover how to forge deeper human relationships
Richard Harmer is a consummate “connector,” in that he innately sees people and businesses as multi-faceted threads, which when woven together with a serve-first attitude, typically result in a beautiful tapestry of opportunity. I am honored to endorse both Richard Harmer and this work, “Don’t Assume There’s Toilet Paper” with an unequivocal thumbs up!
Larry Upton – Founder Bambu Werx
Don't Assume There's Toilet Paper
“This book hilariously captures the random chaos of life. A must-read!”
“I laughed out loud reading this! The author’s witty analogies and stories kept me thoroughly entertained while providing me with thought provoking information.”
Rave Reviews for Don't Assume There's Toilet Paper
“This book hilariously captures the random chaos of life. A must-read!”
“I laughed out loud reading this! The author’s witty analogies and stories kept me thoroughly entertained.”
“The author’s humor and insights resonated with me on such a deep level. I loved Don’t Assume There’s TP!”
“Prepare to laugh your pants off, possibly while stranded in the bathroom without toilet paper!”
A Message from the Author
After battling anxiety and ending up hospitalized six times in two years, I knew I needed to change my mindset. Not develop some sort of “success” or “growth” mindset, but a freedom mindset. This book is the culmination of years of exploration and learning, driven not by wealth, but by the pursuit of freedom in my mind.
I come from hardworking, blue-collar roots. My quest was simple – a life lived to the fullest. But my twenties and thirties felt like a perpetual rat race, a path not true to my authentic self. Then the revelation struck – my existence is fleeting, and there is no toilet paper in this bathroom! Life is nothing but a whisper to the world. But to me, it’s all I have. It’s my entire being. I wanted to be free from monetary-driven pursuits.
Tragic instances like millionaire friends committing suicide and one of my best friends, former inmate, Gene McGuire, changed my life. Him finding freedom in prison while serving a life sentence shifted my perspective. His life is a reminder we all seem to incarcerate ourselves daily, although for you and I, escape is possible. For him, he had to wait, 34 years, 9 months and 15 days.
I didn’t write this book for you; I wrote it for myself to escape anxiety and reconsider life. If you seek instant solutions or step-by-step guides, this isn’t for you. But if you’re open to looking at life from a different perspective to find freedom, this book is for you.
Reflect on your own life as you read, and consider how these ideas apply to your circumstances. Who knows? Maybe next time you’re in the bathroom and in a bind, you’ll have a moment of inspiration too!”